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“Throughout human history, men always had a clear and concise path laid out before them. We’re one of the first generations that doesn’t. You can do or be anything you want in any capacity that you want. So create your own standard and then surpass it. Psychologically that’s where we derive our worth and our value. –Sweet.That’s the first thing I thought when I got a mail in my inbox from Mark Manson.It seems that;As long as you just kindly spam request interesting people long enough that eventually something will stick. So today I’m interviewing Mark Manson.For the ones who live under a rock and don’t know Mark;Mark is a dating-expert, writer, avid-traveler and all-round life-enthusiast.
He’s the author of – The uncrowned king of dating-books in my honest opinion. – and he’s also a frequent blogger atIn models, Mark takes a rather refreshing approach to the whole “dating-game” and strips it down piece by piece to the bare essentials.The biggest point in this book is the fact that he completely dismisses tactics, tricks, games and other junk that complicates so many peoples’ dating lives and makes it astoundingly simplistic. No more;. Pretending to be someone you’re not. Playing silly games to “win her over”. Defining a successful romantic life by the number of girls you’ve slept with.
Having to hold things back or over-complicate your textsOr as I coined it towards my friends (yes, I do have friends); It’s the pick-up guide for people who actually prefer to be normal. It’s the best book I’ve ever read on dating.Let’s talk!Enter; Mark———————————————————————————-Color code: Me, question, Mark1) I’m a big fan of Emersons’ quote in your book; “What you are shouts so loudly, I cannot hear what you say”. It addresses the biggest problem with pick-up to date; It focuses on techniques and quick fixes instead of the inside-out development into the man that is attractive instead of posing to be that man. For the people that haven’t read your book yet; What are the biggest points that separates your dating advice (Models) from the “standard” pick-up advice?Models differs a lot from classic pick up advice. With Models, rejection is often seen as a good thing.
Honesty, even if it leads to rejection, is also seen as a good thing. Vulnerability and LETTING GO of trying to control an interaction is advised rather than trying to control every last thing.
An understanding of demographics, which women are right for you and wrong for you, finding your niche, and discovering the great aspects about yourself that will attract women in that niche. I could go on and on. Very different.(Another addition I found, that really stood out was this; Don’t be afraid to show weakness. When you pretend you’re someone you’re not (yet) you’ll gather evidence that the “real” you is not good enough for attractive women and you’ll be forced to alwayswear that mask. Weakness is good GREAT. It means the problem is identified & it can be fixed.)——–2) I think your book started a small, silent revolution in the pick-up community and challenged a lot of beliefs that were popular. But let’s get back a little bit further; Why do you think there’s such a high demand for dating advice these days in the first place.
Why is something that should be so easy (and natural) so challenging/frustrating for men these days?I think dating is in kind of a state of upheaval with our generation. Part of this is due to how educated everyone has become and how long it takes to get a career started. Part of this is because women have more rights and opportunities and often want to take time to establish careers for themselves before they settle down.
I think these are good social developments, but they have the unintended side effect of making dating more confusing and unclear than perhaps it was for our parents’ generation.——–3) There’s people who say they can’t change any aspects of themselves and there’s people who naively believe they can “be whoever they want to be.” In one part of the book you said that you attract what you are. How much control do you believe people really have over what they are/who they become? Where do you draw the line?Well, much of who we are is determined by our genetics. But much of it is determined by learned behavior. Where the line between the two is doesn’t really matter.
The point is that we can all improve upon ourselves and therefore we should.(I believe the largest part of who we become is defined by our environment. Not 100% but my guess would be 70 – 80%. Or like the behavioral psychologist John B.
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